tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post4157622879149648216..comments2023-06-26T06:56:13.201-04:00Comments on Tony A Gaskins, Jr.: Will he wait? Tony A. Gaskins Jr.http://www.blogger.com/profile/02457398274158489296noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-91760905733926062122015-04-11T06:46:58.335-04:002015-04-11T06:46:58.335-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Roxyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16093439666924863151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-24880967598702306692015-04-10T15:12:45.149-04:002015-04-10T15:12:45.149-04:00I've been dealing with someone on and off for ...I've been dealing with someone on and off for 7 years, I'm 24 now and our relationship was build on sex. Were trying to work it out right...Is it possible to rebuild and start over now that sexul boundaries have been crossed?Nicholenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-89856571372459494032015-04-01T14:10:03.588-04:002015-04-01T14:10:03.588-04:00As a man it is very sad to hear a woman say she th...As a man it is very sad to hear a woman say she thinks she can handle sex before marriage. And he excuse be, what if the sex is not Good? That is least of your concerns and an invalid one. All you are simply doing is making an excuse to do what you want to do. Or have we now become smarter than the God who said sex before marriage is a sin? Do we now believe God is NOT capable of doing anything? Do we not trust Him? If you are a beleiver there is a lot of sin in not only your thoughts but also the act of pre marital sex. So if you are a beleiver humbly ask Jesus to help you see things clearly. And if you are not a believer you are free to do whatever you like as you have chosen to serve your own desires. So the question is what are you? There is no in between in this area. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06663704139660219199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-88812170868273370712015-04-01T10:18:03.114-04:002015-04-01T10:18:03.114-04:00Right on point! The man I am dating stated "b...Right on point! The man I am dating stated "be patient" and "remind me". However I feel that if you truly love or care for someone, the first time I told you anything about us you will make the change. Therefore confrontation will only make him cover his tracks. I will set a deadline in my mind and stick to it. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-45395176012760531162015-03-30T21:29:15.257-04:002015-03-30T21:29:15.257-04:00Thanks TG!!!!Thanks TG!!!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14315003676475800201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-84445040095394333152015-03-28T13:30:14.677-04:002015-03-28T13:30:14.677-04:00Celibacy is not normal in my immediate world, and ...Celibacy is not normal in my immediate world, and it never has been. I find a lot of Tony's followers are but that's becuase that's what he's pomoting. Aside from that, I agree with everything else you said and it's great to see that you are follwing God's blue print. That's awesome:)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09040958524157602546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-35442265060953823372015-03-28T09:53:43.368-04:002015-03-28T09:53:43.368-04:00Wow! This is just amazing! & Stacie Digby, I l...Wow! This is just amazing! & Stacie Digby, I like ur way of thinking. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-6603906997665020172015-03-28T09:22:40.283-04:002015-03-28T09:22:40.283-04:00This ministry you have is truly blessing me! This ministry you have is truly blessing me! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08060266677538866010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-64318158877501901732015-03-28T02:35:06.594-04:002015-03-28T02:35:06.594-04:00God can make you sexually compatible!God can make you sexually compatible!J.Campion ARPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08330289321484246341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-22777007764987263932015-03-27T22:03:25.805-04:002015-03-27T22:03:25.805-04:00Great blog. My girlfriend and I have been together...Great blog. My girlfriend and I have been together nearly 2 years. I told her upfront that I was practicing abstinence until marriage. We are building a relationship that is founded on love and not lust. Derek Q. Sandershttp://www.derekqsanders.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-48422003818979767682015-03-27T21:05:47.257-04:002015-03-27T21:05:47.257-04:00Love this! Thank you! Definitely on point.Love this! Thank you! Definitely on point.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-41341978373777417562015-03-27T20:10:38.981-04:002015-03-27T20:10:38.981-04:00Great perspective and right on time too! Thank you...Great perspective and right on time too! Thank you for sharing! Taliah Shiree Graveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02093460399211921627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-62542973683411875482015-03-27T16:33:17.336-04:002015-03-27T16:33:17.336-04:00People mistake celibacy with something out of the ...People mistake celibacy with something out of the norm! It is actually biblical instructions that EVRYONE should abide by. In this way, when you meet your "Rib" or you’re "Boaz" then there will be no questions whether or not that person is for you. If we were still abiding by this rule, you wouldn’t know whether the person was "good" or "great" in bed because that would be your 1 and only sexual encounter BEFORE marriage. So, of course we stray and don’t obey the "Biblical Instructions Before Christ" but, once you come into your self-awareness and you know who you are AND who's you are, celibacy would not be as hard as people think it is. And yes, I am celibate and the commitment that has been made between me and Lord shall not be broken until HE (the Lord) says otherwise. Be Blessed.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18370112354523099364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-64415601795443128082015-03-27T14:31:24.859-04:002015-03-27T14:31:24.859-04:00lol i like how you worded that. honestly i abstain...lol i like how you worded that. honestly i abstain from sexual intercourse when im not interested or dont feel like someone is good enough to enjoy that side of me so i totally understand. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06392316366369566179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-36663411739296226452015-03-27T14:23:28.620-04:002015-03-27T14:23:28.620-04:00Thank you Tony for your time and for providing ins...Thank you Tony for your time and for providing insight on this question. It's appreciated!SuthernGyrlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13515480570261788513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-9546002973716505512015-03-27T14:18:28.947-04:002015-03-27T14:18:28.947-04:00I only promote celibacy because I am celibate and ...I only promote celibacy because I am celibate and I know the peace that comes from it. I've gained so much spiritually from respecting my body, sexual energy, and who I share it with. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09040958524157602546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-39431224706976104622015-03-27T14:16:22.075-04:002015-03-27T14:16:22.075-04:00I understand. I've had those too. It made me w...I understand. I've had those too. It made me wish I didn't have that talk with him about trying something new... It was way out, in a bad way. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09040958524157602546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-49587501133655304322015-03-27T13:58:17.696-04:002015-03-27T13:58:17.696-04:00Don't get me wrong, I don't rush into bed ...Don't get me wrong, I don't rush into bed with anyone but if i'm really interested I want to experience their sexual side too. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06392316366369566179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-5105228460866487182015-03-27T13:54:34.688-04:002015-03-27T13:54:34.688-04:00honestly one was decent in the bed and as his feel...honestly one was decent in the bed and as his feeling grew for me he just got worse. I know it sounds crazy but its the truth lol. Maybe he started thinking too hard and the other finally confessed that he was in to like rough kinky stuff. I respect peoples interest but beating someone with a belt until you draw blood does not turn me on in the slightest. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06392316366369566179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-17877001168375879662015-03-27T13:49:30.537-04:002015-03-27T13:49:30.537-04:00Sure:) I was going to say that ince you have had g...Sure:) I was going to say that ince you have had guys who were both good, and bad in bed. You would probably recognize if a guy isn't going to be good.so you probably wouldn't have that problem if you waited. If that is a deal breaker for you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09040958524157602546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-25055445228444209912015-03-27T13:19:52.784-04:002015-03-27T13:19:52.784-04:00thank you, i appreciate the mutual respect :-)thank you, i appreciate the mutual respect :-)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06392316366369566179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-18648323959311685922015-03-27T13:02:52.857-04:002015-03-27T13:02:52.857-04:00If you can handle that then it's whatever work...If you can handle that then it's whatever works for you. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09040958524157602546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-88289775761573676782015-03-27T12:39:13.034-04:002015-03-27T12:39:13.034-04:00I love that you are an optimist and I think you sh...I love that you are an optimist and I think you should stick to it. I just have a different way of thinking at this time of my life. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06392316366369566179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-91337040659646758512015-03-27T12:38:09.994-04:002015-03-27T12:38:09.994-04:00On the flip side I'm way more selective about ...On the flip side I'm way more selective about who I share myself with and I don't sleep with someone unless we are friends and i respect and care about that individual. And if it doesnt work out you gotta be ok with just walking away with those great sex memoriesAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06392316366369566179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4435947961340404201.post-64963515550530336412015-03-27T12:35:34.569-04:002015-03-27T12:35:34.569-04:00I'm sorry I don't want to have years of ba...I'm sorry I don't want to have years of bad sex trying to teach someone. I tried before and that definitely didn't work out. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06392316366369566179noreply@blogger.com